The sexual psychotherapist, Adriana López, assures that the couple should never lose interest in sexual relationships, which can be achieved when it breaks with monotony and invests in intimacy. For example, by kissing your partner all over his body, giving him a massage after a bath together or an intimate dinner in which the two, with little clothing, talk, recognize themselves and revalue the relationship they have.
“The key is to resort to actions that made us happy and to get to know each other better. There is nothing sadder than seeing a couple with 5, 10 years or more married, make love in only three positions or in the same place, when there is an infinite world to explore ”.
According to the also surgeon, the Therapy of Kisses It allows to revive and recover the intimacy and sexual relationship, as long as it is not damaged, that is, if there is love and a desire to recover the union. Otherwise, failure will be inevitable.
López indicates that when the other person is kissed, a part of the brain is stimulated, which releases oxytocin into the bloodstream, resulting in a feeling of pleasure. This therapy is mirror. You can make dresses or nudes:
“It all depends on how the couple wants it or if they have a sex life or not, but the idea is that the one who starts (either one) begins to kiss his partner and if he kisses his nose, whoever will receive also do it (mirror effect. As you receive, give) Without touching the genitals, since a kiss is extremely rich and exciting ”.
When you kiss, we release oxytocin, a hormone that is also involved in falling in love, orgasm, childbirth and breastfeeding and is also related to affectivity, tenderness and the act of touching. On the other hand, passionate kisses cause the release of adrenaline in the blood, an increase in the heart rate, lower blood pressure and the level of glucose in the blood.
The power of kisses
The sexologist Adriana López is in favor of couples kissing, in such a way that the other manages to feel the same as one and not only as an empty reflection that does not involve emotions:
“It’s easy for couples to forget about kissing, but it’s a very effective way of sharing intimacy. There is a lot of emphasis on having great sex and many forget that a simple kiss is an easy way to keep in touch. “
López affirms that people are more concerned with paying their financial debts and forget or downplay the emotional debts that are pending: “I recommend that they also begin to pay off their emotional debts and that better than with a kiss. Have fun and end the routine that undermines all relationships. “
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